About Mistress Gigi

 

I’m a twenty-nine-year-old lifestyle femdom Mistress, semi-retired pro domme and phone sex dominatrix living in Los Angeles. I first became aware of my own kinkiness when I began crossdressing and feminizing the boys at school. Even though I started out young, I didn’t realize that the thrill I got from embarrassing men was in fact, a “kink” until I was in my early twenties.

I’ve always been drawn to relationships where I am in the power seat.

Long before I had words to define the experience of being a femdom I sought out virgin men to satisfy my needs. I had realized as a teen that a virgin male would do just about anything I told him. A virgin male would perform exactly as I ordered. I found that after one or two sexual experiences this obedience would fade and I would have to move on to the next virgin male.

At twenty years old I knew nothing about consensual sexual slavery Although I was primarily lesbian identified I knew that I had so much power over men that I could find a man to service me under any circumstances I could create. So I put out an ad on Craigslist CE ad for an ‘eighteen-year-old male virgin sex slave.’

As you can imagine I had to terminate that Craigslist posting after being inundated with over three hundred messages in less than twenty-four hours. I can remember one who addressed me a “Ma’am” and sent a standard slave application letter detailing his service to another woman. He signed the letter, “On my knees, slave bill.”

I was both intrigued and horrified by this bizarre behavior. I deleted his message and laughed about it every time I thought of him for years.
I had no idea that I would soon have slaves just like him or that anyone else was doing this kind of stuff.

I was vaguely aware of a fetish community of kinky people doing kinky things somewhere over there but I felt very disconnected from the images of people in leather and latex.

I had begun therapy a when I was only eighteen. I had known since I was a teenager that I was probably a sociopath, rapist, and possibly a serial killer. Who else would get off to fantasies of raping, beating, and torturing others? I was sure that if I told my therapist why I was REALLY there she would have no choice but to call the police and have Me hauled away…

While I knew that I would NEVER really rape, torture, or beat someone I was sure that I was always just a moment away from becoming a totally messed up deranged rapist. It wasn’t until I picked up a book of BDSM erotic fiction that I learned that I was not alone in My fantasies.

I had been making a very shabby income working as a community organizer when a friend of mine, who was an elementary schoolteacher, told Me about Niteflirt. It was her fun and naughty little secret. She’d get home from school, pour herself a glass of wine and settle into her role as a Fetish FemDom Phone Fatale.

Soon I was taking calls on Niteflirt and learning about fetishes I’d never even conceived of and titillating things I didn’t even know I was into! I was amazed by how much I learned from the submissives, fetishists (and Google, “Of course I’m into sploshing.” Click clack Click Clack) who called me back then. I continue to learn about myself and others even now and that is still one of my favorite parts about BDSM phone sex. I kept working part time as a makeup artist and full-time as an organizer but Niteflirt became the job that I was most excited about.

It turned out, I’m damn good at being a Femdom. In fact, today, it’s the only role that I take in romantic relationships.

Fast forward seven years and I live a life that revolves around BDSM.

My friends and family all know that I’m kinky and that I’m active as a kink educator. I don’t share everything with everyone (I have remarkably good boundaries) but I don’t lie to or hide from anyone anymore.

People have a lot less power over you if you’re out to everyone you know. No one can ever “expose” Me for having relationships with both women and men or blackmail Me for working in the sex industry or being into some really bizarre shit because everyone already knows.

Sounds pretty rad, huh?

I invite you to listen to My MP3s and get swept up into My world as I share all the perversion that corrupts My brain!

I’m a real sick fuck and I like it that way. I hope you do too.

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